Fantasies and kinksHow to Be a Submissive in Bed Without DisappearingHow to be a submissive in bed: want, word, and Jessica on handing over the evening.5 September 2026·Jessica Simpkin
Fantasies and kinksHow to Share Your Kink With a Vanilla Partner Without an AmbushHow to share your kink with a vanilla partner. Jessica on translation, not conversion.1 September 2026·Jessica Simpkin
Dirty talkHow to Bring Up Trying Something New in BedHow to bring up trying something new in bed. My scripts for toys, roles, and third people.22 August 2026·Jessica Simpkin
Dirty talk27 Things to Say During Sex That Are Not ‘Does That Feel Nice?’Things to say during sex that leave room for feeling. Lines that describe, praise, and steer, not quiz.20 August 2026·Jessica Simpkin
Dirty talkHow to Give Sexual Feedback Without Ruining the Next TimeHow to give sexual feedback that they can use. The note after, not the grimace during.19 August 2026·Jessica Simpkin
Dirty talkHow to Say No During Sex and Still Like Yourself in the MorningHow to say no during sex: stop, redirect, or leave. On the nights I wished I had sooner.18 August 2026·Jessica Simpkin
Threesomes and ENMHow to Open Your Relationship Without Using It as an Escape HatchHow to open your relationship slowly. Jessica on the couple who rushed and the couple who did not.17 August 2026·Jessica Simpkin
Threesomes and ENMHow to Ask Your Partner for a Threesome Without It Sounding Like a ComplaintHow to ask your partner for a threesome. Jessica’s script, and the no she respected.9 August 2026·Jessica Simpkin
Threesomes and ENMHow to Have a Threesome That People Still Speak to You AfterHow to have a threesome: planning, the night, the morning. Jessica on her first one.1 August 2026·Jessica Simpkin
Fantasies and kinksHow to Be Dominant in Bed When You Are Polite in ShopsHow to be dominant in bed: voice, decisions, care. Jessica on switching on without becoming a cartoon.12 July 2026·Jessica Simpkin
Toys and toolsHow to Introduce Sex Toys to Your Partner Without a Product LaunchHow to introduce sex toys to your partner. Jessica’s scripts and the night the box stayed under the bed.30 May 2026·Jessica Simpkin
Dirty talkHow to Tell Your Partner Your Fantasies Without Making It a Job InterviewHow to tell your partner your fantasies: start small, watch their face, keep a way out. Jessica on the ones she shared.20 February 2026·Jessica Simpkin
Dirty talkHow to Talk About Sex With Your Partner When You Both Go AwkwardHow to talk about sex with your partner: timing, tone, and Jessica’s kitchen-table method.7 January 2026·Jessica Simpkin
Dirty talkHow to Ask for What You Want in Bed Without a PresentationHow to ask for what you want in bed: one sentence, good timing, no spreadsheet. Jessica’s scripts.30 December 2025·Jessica Simpkin
Dirty talkHow to Talk Dirty When You Sound Like Yourself, Not a Subtitle TrackHow to talk dirty in a voice that is actually yours. Jessica on the sentence that changed her sex.22 December 2025·Jessica Simpkin
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