Threesomes and ENMPolyamory vs Open Relationship: I Have Tried to Live BothPolyamory vs open relationship, explained without a flowchart. Jessica's lived version.27 August 2026·Jessica Simpkin
Threesomes and ENMWhat Is Ethical Non-Monogamy? A Plain Answer From Someone In It, SometimesWhat ethical non-monogamy is, and is not. Jessica on honesty as the actual work.13 August 2026·Jessica Simpkin
Spice and gamesHow to Spice Up Your Sex Life Without Booking a CircusHow to spice up your sex life with small, repeatable changes. The tweaks that lasted.14 May 2026·Jessica Simpkin
Couples and marriageHow to Fix a Dead Bedroom When You Are Both Still in the HouseHow to fix a dead bedroom: steps, not miracles. Jessica on the winter it went quiet.24 April 2026·Jessica Simpkin
Couples and marriageHow to Initiate Sex in a Long-Term Relationship When a Grope Has Stopped WorkingHow to initiate sex in a long-term relationship. Jessica on the tap on the hip that now means dishes.20 April 2026·Jessica Simpkin
Couples and marriageMismatched Sex Drives: The Negotiation I Wish We Had SoonerMismatched sex drives, without making one person the problem. Jessica's compromise that held.16 April 2026·Jessica Simpkin
Couples and marriageLow Libido in a Relationship: I Have Been Both PeopleLow libido in a relationship, from both sides. Jessica on desire that went quiet.12 April 2026·Jessica Simpkin
Couples and marriageHow to Get Out of a Sex Rut When You Could Script the Next TimeHow to get out of a sex rut. Jessica on the Saturday night that was always the same.8 April 2026·Jessica Simpkin
Couples and marriageHow to Reconnect With Your Partner Sexually After You Have Gone FlatmatesHow to reconnect with your partner sexually. Jessica on the housemate phase and the way back.4 April 2026·Jessica Simpkin
Couples and marriageHow Often Do Married Couples Have Sex? I Stopped Comparing Ours to a ChartHow often married couples have sex, what surveys say, and why Jessica ditched the average.31 March 2026·Jessica Simpkin
Dating and first timesWhat Is a Situationship? I Have Been in Three and Only Named OneWhat a situationship is, how to spot one, and Jessica on the almost-relationship she let drift.11 March 2026·Jessica Simpkin
Dirty talkHow to Talk About Sex With Your Partner When You Both Go AwkwardHow to talk about sex with your partner: timing, tone, and Jessica’s kitchen-table method.7 January 2026·Jessica Simpkin
Dating and first timesHow to Turn a Hookup Into a Relationship Without a CampaignHow to turn a hookup into a relationship: timing, honesty, and Jessica’s almost.12 November 2025·Jessica Simpkin
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