Jessica Simpkin
Where Is the G-Spot? A Map From Someone Who Has Looked
Where is the G-spot? Inside, towards the belly, a few centimetres in. How I look for it without a treasure hunt, and why some nights I never care.
10 September 2026
Jessica Simpkin
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Meet Jessica
Jessica Simpkin
Hey! I'm Jess, I'm 37 years old and currently live in Manchester, England. I talk about sex and relationships based on lived experiences. I'm outgoing and adventurous, I love attending costume parties with friends, as well as hiking in the Lake District.