Jessica Simpkin

Topics

Toys and tools

Beginners, couples, discreet buys, and how to actually use them.

Best Lube for Sex, Because Dry Is Not a Personality

Best lube for sex: water, silicone, and what Jessica keeps by the bed.

3 June 2026Jessica Simpkin

How to Introduce Sex Toys to Your Partner Without a Product Launch

How to introduce sex toys to your partner. Jessica’s scripts and the night the box stayed under the bed.

30 May 2026Jessica Simpkin

11 Best Couples Sex Toys We Have Actually Used, Not Just Unboxed

Best couples sex toys, ranked by use, not packaging. Jessica on the keepers.

26 May 2026Jessica Simpkin

How to Use a Vibrator With a Partner Without Anyone Feeling Replaced

How to use a vibrator with a partner. Jessica on the ego, the angle, and the night it became normal.

22 May 2026Jessica Simpkin

Best Vibrator for Beginners: What I Wish I Had Bought First

Best vibrator for beginners, without a wall of jargon. Jessica on the first one that did not scare her off.

18 May 2026Jessica Simpkin