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What Is the Orgasm Gap, and Why I Am Tired of Closing It Alone

What the orgasm gap is, the numbers, and Jessica's first-person close-the-gap advice.

6 September 2026Jessica Simpkin

How to have an orgasm alone. Jessica on the afternoon she stopped performing for nobody.

Best sex positions for female orgasm: the ones that keep clitoral contact, not the ones that look good in a still.

How to make her finish: stay still, keep the rhythm, stop asking if she is close. Jessica on the last thirty seconds.

How to have multiple orgasms: rest, stimulation, and why Jessica's second one is rarely a copy of the first.

How to give a woman an orgasm: clitoris first, less performance, more paying attention. Jessica on what actually works.

26 September 2025Jessica Simpkin